Showing posts with label books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label books. Show all posts

Thursday, 13 October 2016

10 Ways Reading Enhances Personal Development

As a tween, I loved the Nancy Drew Mystery Series. I wanted to be like Nancy Drew. She had such a good head on her shoulders, even though she was constantly facing danger and never quite “hooking” Ned, the handsome guy whom the wealthy beautiful Helen was always throwing herself upon.

Through those characters, I was able to gain insight into the types of people I encountered in my daily life – character types – good, bad, selfish and unselfish, etc. This series probably began my love affair with books that continues today.

In high school, of course, we read all of the classics – To Kill a Mockingbird, Romeo and Juliet, The Grapes of Wrath, Moby Dick, Hamlet, The Glass Menagerie, Crime and Punishment, The Great Gatsby, A Tale of Two Cities, and more.






Why Reading Enhances Personal Development

I don’t remember ever not liking a book we were reading. That continued in college too. And as an adult, the love affair continues, although some non-fiction is added to the list now and then.

But fiction is the great teacher – contributing to our own personal development in at least the 10 following ways:


1) Insight into Human Nature

We meet every possible personality through reading, and we gain understanding of what motivates the behaviours of people.

We can study the characters that appear on those pages, watch them as they react and respond to one another, deal with conflict, and expose their strengths and weaknesses. We gain perspective on such things as unselfishness, greed, ambition, egoism – the types of personality traits we encounter in real life.

Through analysing these characters in literature, I have developed better methods of dealing with people in my world.


2) Problem-Solving

One of the great things about literature is that the main character always has a conflict and problems to solve.

How those problems are solved, and the process that is used, gives us great training on solving problems (often how not to solve them) with which we are faced in life.

Of course, Romeo and Juliet did not solve their problems well, and we learn from this play the dangers of impulsivity – a good lesson for teenagers. Avid readers come to learn how to avoid the mistakes that fictional characters often make.


3) Imagination

As we age, many of us lose the imagination that so entertained us when we were children.


When we are taken to new places and meet unique people, our imaginations are stimulated. We place ourselves in those surroundings and imagine what they must be like. Science fiction does that for me, as do historical novels such as A Tale of Two Cities.

James Michener was a master at stimulating the imaginations of his readers – we are able to put ourselves there, geographically and historically, as his saga unfold. Nurturing our imaginations allows new ideas and divergent thinking.








4) Vocabulary and Language Skills

Avid readers have much larger vocabularies than those who avoid the past-time. And the reading of good books provides models of good language and writing. Research shows that the language development, both oral and written, that is fostered from reading books, results in better learning all around.

Adults who have read a lot and who continue to read are able to grasp complex written material far easier, and they are better writers overall. These are career skills which are difficult to learn later in life.


5) Relief from Stress/Escape

The mental and physical effects of stress are well documented. To relive stress, we engage in a number of activities – physical exercise, meditation, and, yes, reading. Studies have shown that blood pressure is reduce during the act of reading.

And reading allows us to focus on something other than our stressors and problems. A good story line carries us away to another place – a much healthier form of escape than alcohol or drugs.


6) Readers Develop Empathy and Tolerance

Empathy is the ability to place yourself “into the shoes” of another and see a problem, a circumstance, and a behaviour from their perspective.

As we do this in our reading, so it transfers over to real life. We learn to be less judgement of others, understanding that we have not had the experiences that have formed their personalities.


7) Readers are More Interesting People
The exposure to history, politics, the law, and unusual places, becomes a store of knowledge that we hold in our memories.

This knowledge base allows us to converse on a variety of topics, both socially and professionally. People with large bases of general knowledge are more highly valued in the professional world.


8) Readers Gain a larger Perspective

Ignorance of other cultures, religions, and ethnicity fosters hostility and fear. Knowledge and understanding of all of these fosters communication, acceptance and tolerance.

Given the global perspective which all of us must develop, reading is the next best thing to actual experience. And when we do face actual experiences with cultures, belief systems and other ethnicity, we have the understanding to establish solid and mutually respectful relationships.


9) Readers See Cause/Effect Relationships

Seeing cause-effect relationships is a critical thinking skill that is highly valued. Through fiction, we are able to see how choices that people make have an impact not only on themselves but on others around them and sometimes on society as a whole.

Readers come to understand the need to consider all of the possible effects when hard choices need to be made.


10) Readers Have Important “Alone Time”

The world is a busy place. We spend our days surrounded by others, inundated with stimuli that bombard our senses and our minds. Sometimes, it is difficult to shut down all of that stimulation and get the rest we need.

When we read, especially at the end of the day, our worlds becomes quiet. Our brains begins to settle down and prepare us for rest. Readers have a much easier time falling asleep at night – who doesn’t need a good night’s sleep?



The benefits of reading cannot be over-stated.

They are intellectual, psychological, and healthy. But even more than that, reading takes to places in our minds that we would never go otherwise. Read on!

Friday, 9 September 2016

4 Must Read Books to Motivate your Entrepreneurial Spirit

First things first this list isn’t the best motivational books, or the top entrepreneurial start-up guides. Instead these are the ones that can give you the motivation to get going or get back on track.
If like myself and 99% of other businesses you are going to have bumps in the road and how quickly you get over them will help establish how successful your business will be.


4 Must Read Books to Motivate Your Entrepreneurial Spirit

Whether it be week 1 or 20 years from now, it’s likely you will have some bad turns leading to the thought: “Is this really for me?” or “Should I be an Entrepreneur?”
These times are 100% un-avoidable but when they do come around, that is the time to pick up one of the below and get reading. They will help explode your imagination and at the same time motivate you to get back on track with your business.
Here are 4 must read books to motivate your entrepreneurial spirit.

1. The Entrepreneurial Revolution

A book by Daniel Priestley talking about how the age of the entrepreneur is now upon us. Previously we had the agricultural revolution and more recently in the last 200 years the industrial revolution.
But nowadays the young individuals that are truly successful aren’t the ones that go to University or college and get a degree and settle into the bottom rung of the corporate ladder for the next 40 years.
Instead the individuals who are successful are the ones creating the “global small business” with teams of 1-10 these companies make huge profits targeting a small specific industry but with the use of the internet quickly become global.





2. The Millionaire Fast-lane

Despite a cheesy title this was the first book that ever truly made me believe I could become a self-employed entrepreneur and a book I highly recommend every aspiring start-up owner to read regardless of your industry or aspirations.
Especially if you are in a full time position that seems to be going nowhere!
MJ DeMarco talks about how students & young people have been brain washed into what they should do, and what he refers to as the “slow lane” to success, which he quotes will get you enough money to be wealthy in your retirement, when in fact you don’t have time or the health to enjoy your earnings anyway!
The slow-lane is probably a process you’ve seen before, it involves going to school, getting good grades, going to a good University, getting a good degree and then working your way up the corporate ladder to a position where you can retire with$500,000 by 60 (if you’re lucky).
Which to me sounds absolutely crazy, but for 99% of people is now how they envision success.
Instead DeMarco talks about how to establish the millionaire Fastlane and become successful within a time to actually reap the rewards of your work before it’s too late.
DeMarco also talks about how selling your business isn’t actually selling out and how everyone should have an exit plan to sell for the “big sum” and teaches you how to live off the 10-20% interest a year whilst working as much as you like.



3. The Entrepreneur Roller-coaster

Darren Hardy’s take on starting your own business, and again focuses on the theme of: why now is the prime time to become a self-employed entrepreneur.

Darren outlines some great nuggets of information here, like how landing 1 “golden” client is better than chasing 100’s or 1000’s of second rate ones.
And as a result putting 100% of your effort into landing this client is almost always better than having 10% of your effort across many different client generation techniques.
Another method mentioned was the highly aggressive (borderline dangerous) client generation technique that pretty much involve stalking your prospects until they give you the time of day.
Hardy also explains that with the help of a stopwatch you can actually calculate how much time you dedicate to the growth of your business, chances are it will be a lot less than you actually think.
Perfect book for anyone who’s been in business for 3-12 months and wants to scale and explode their sales.



Again another title that isn’t going to win any awards, yet in my opinion Napoleon Hill’s greatest book, far superior to think and grow rich which many people consider to be one of the top 10 business books ever written.
In the law of success Hill outlines the 16 keys to running a successful billion dollar business which he learnt from his years with Andrew Carnegie.
The key theme throughout the law of success is setting up a definite chief aim and evolving your business in a way that always relates back to this.
Although very motivational this book isn’t for the faint-hearted, it’s a 500+ page tough read. Saying this, if you can consume the knowledge inside you will be well on your way to owning an extremely successful business.


To Sum Up
To recap in short on the 4 must read books to motivate your entrepreneurial spirit, here they are:
The Entrepreneurial Revolution
The Millionaire Fast-Lane
The Entrepreneur Roller-Coaster

The Law of Success in Sixteen Lessons