NLP Principles That You Can Use in Daily Life

NLP Principles That You Can Use in Daily Life

Here are the basic principles of NLP that you or any person of any age can apply to absolutely any situation in life. Like any new skill that we are at the beginning of learning it'll take some practice, but practice makes perfect at what we practice. The value will come very soon - the quality of your life and communication with yourself and others - and thus your productivity and happiness levels will increase for you and people around you:

You create your own reality.
You know your reality, but not other people's realities.
You get what you concentrate on.
You have within you the resources you need to achieve what you want.
Your behavior is purposeful.
You are doing the best you can - and you could probably do better.
Every behavior is useful in some context.
Choice is better than no choice. Always aim to increase choice.
The meaning of communication is the response it elicits.
There's no failure, only feedback.
Each person has their own reality. As they operate from that reality, they're always right.
Your current behavior is the best possible choice for you at the time.
If what you're doing isn't working, do something different.
Mind and body are one integrated system.
People with the most flexibility are most likely to achieve what they want. The part of any system that has the greatest variety of possible responses will control the system.
People work perfectly - no one is wrong or broken.
There're no resistant clients - only inflexible communicators.
It is easier to change yourself than to change others.
People do the best they can given the choices they believe are available to them.
Modeling excellence leads to excellence.
If one person can do something, it is possible to model and teach it to others.
Everything that is said, done, experienced is said, done, experienced by someone.
Experience can be changed.
Mind and body are systemic - when you change one, you'll change the other.
People will make meaning from experience - not just respond.
Energy flows where attention goes.
Our realities limit what we are capable of more than do the constraints of external realities.
As we have better strategies for achieving what we want, we will choose to use them.
We all have equal access to building and using internal resources.
Our deeper experience is revealed in our language whenever we speak.









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